College and Beyond

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From choosing a school and paying for it to the money and life skills they’ll need, and how to stay close once they go. For every path after high school, college or not.

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What to do when, starting in 9th grade

9th grade

Ages 14+
  1. Grades count from day one. Many colleges and scholarships look at all four years.
  2. Try activities and stick with the ones they love. Depth beats a long list.
  3. Start a simple record of activities, awards, volunteering and jobs.
  4. Talk about interests, not colleges yet.

Dad tip: Your job this year: notice what lights them up.

10th grade

Ages 15+
  1. Keep grades steady and take the most challenging classes they can handle well.
  2. Explore careers through job shadowing, summer programs or a part-time job.
  3. Consider a practice PSAT if their school offers one.
  4. Start a family conversation about what college or training might cost.

Dad tip: Visit a nearby campus casually, just to see what one feels like.

11th grade

Ages 16+
  1. Take the PSAT/NMSQT in the fall. Strong scores can qualify for National Merit recognition.
  2. Plan SAT or ACT dates if the colleges on their list want scores.
  3. Build a balanced list: reach, target and likely schools, plus non-college options.
  4. Visit campuses, and ask teachers for recommendations before summer.
  5. Start drafting a personal essay over the summer.

Dad tip: This is the big research year. A weekly 30-minute planning session together keeps it manageable.

12th grade

Ages 17+
  1. Fall: finish applications. Early deadlines are often November 1 or November 15.
  2. File the FAFSA as early as possible, plus the CSS Profile if needed.
  3. Winter: regular deadlines, often in January. Keep applying for scholarships.
  4. Spring: compare financial aid offers side by side, using the real cost after aid.
  5. Commit by May 1, the national decision day at many colleges.

Dad tip: Celebrate every submitted application. The work deserves recognition, whatever the outcome.

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